MOM vs TANTRUM

Tantrum is always become a stressing problem for parents. Tantrum itself such an attitude like screaming, cries, throwing things, and also rolled over on the ground. Cause of tantrum can be varied; such as dressing - in this case a child refuse to wear such a dress, such as her/his uniform or some party dress, or even when you go for shopping with your son or daughter and they ask for something such as candy but you do not allow them to have it, a child can be very tantrum because of it.

So, how would you feel when your children tantrum in front of public? She/he screams, cries, and all of her/his angry expression, and she/he does that only to get your attention. I am sure you will be shy and stress meet this condition. But, talking to children with tantrum like this is useless. They do not listen to what you said or what you do.

However, tantrum is not always negative. It means that children need tantrum. It is because with tantrum will teach them about feeling. They can show how angry they are with the condition or situation that they don't like. Tantrum also give you a chance to teach them how to solve a frustrating problem of her/him. Also, you can teach them that all problem can be handle, so nothing to worry about that. Then what should to do to help children with tantrum? See these tips below;

1. When your children in tantrum, don't give more comments to them. Talk to them after they finish tantrum is the best way. In this situation, we can discuss what things are allow and what things are not allow. When we talk to children with tantrum, they will not copy any word we said.
2. Give up to child with tantrum and give them reward or try is just giving us short solution, children will recognize it as a goal of tantrum. It means that children will use tantrum as "weapon" to get what they want. So, in the future, you will meet more and more tantrum attitude. 
3. When you angry and you being rude to them, he/she will learn that they cannot control their emotion safely and will make them confuse to her/his own feeling.